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The Official Complaint Thread!

Is it so difficult to look in the same direction you are walking (or driving)? 3 people have nearly collided with me this morning.
 
Whenever my mechanic services my car he has to move the drivers seat because he is a lot shorter than me and can't reach the clutch. He also changes the tilt and telescopes my steering wheel.

My complaint is that I can never seem to get everything back to EXACTLY where it was.
 
TheMightyOdin said:
Whenever my mechanic services my car he has to move the drivers seat because he is a lot shorter than me and can't reach the clutch. He also changes the tilt and telescopes my steering wheel.

My complaint is that I can never seem to get everything back to EXACTLY where it was.
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At least it's just your mechanic.  I have to put up with this whenever my husband or my 18 yr old son drive my van!  Irritates the heck out of me!
 
TML fan said:
How difficult is it to signal lane changes/turns?
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Too difficult for too many. In addition, usage of the turn signal does not give you a god given right to cut others off (just because you told them you were going to)
 
Cancer.  :( My neigbour (such a nice woman) found out she's got a 3 X 2cm tumor which is attached to her optic? nerve. Anyway, best case (the very best case) scenario is they remove it and she completely loses all sense of smell and taste and she has to have radiation every 2 (or so) years for the rest of her life.... However long that is. Worst case scenario is the obvious one. I can't stop thinking about her. I'm not sure how to be the good neighbour here. I mean, how do I handle this? I want to do all I can for her and her family but at the same time, I want to give her space  :-\
 
Floyd said:
Cancer.  :( My neigbour (such a nice woman) found out she's got a 3 X 2cm tumor which is attached to her optic? nerve. Anyway, best case (the very best case) scenario is they remove it and she completely loses all sense of smell and taste and she has to have radiation every 2 (or so) years for the rest of her life.... However long that is. Worst case scenario is the obvious one. I can't stop thinking about her. I'm not sure how to be the good neighbour here. I mean, how do I handle this? I want to do all I can for her and her family but at the same time, I want to give her space  :-\
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My mom beat lung cancer twice.  Second time the prognosis wasn't good, but she was a feisty lady.  First time they operated to take out part of her lung.  Second time around - chemo and radiation.  I tell ya, it's the hardest thing to try and support someone.  Offer to help out with groceries, mail, take her some cut-up veggies and fruit now and then, as well as healthy meals on occasion.  She's likely to eat less because she'll be so tired from this, but you can keep her eating fresh foods without her realizing how much you're keeping her health up!

Good luck - cancer can be beaten!
 
What Rick said, Floyd.

I'd go over there with the fruit and/or veggie tray and a card with your telephone number on it. Let her/the family know what you're willing to do for them (and you'd be surprised how much help something as simple as 'I'll walk/feed the dog if you have a medical appointment that goes overtime' etc kind of thin helps). Everyone always says stuff like "if you need anything" and it rings hollow. If you can, be specific: 'If you need a ride'/'If you need someone to watch the kids'/'can i pick up groceries' etc.....

And bless you for being so thoughtful.
 
My son wasnt supposed to survive treatment, 7 years ago... forget the worst case scenario... Support is key. Many here were part of that support for me... it was amazingly helpful.... I'm sure the kharma was a huge part... dont wait to seek it out, and certainly dont wait to offer it up... no matter what happens, you can always know you contributed to making someone feel wanted, and secure... thats good kharma
 
Thanks for the advice, guys. She told my wife (whom she also works with) that the worst thing for her is when people say "I'm sure it'll all be fine" when she knows that even with a miracle, things will be tough. I mean the info is just days old and she herself is still trying to process it. Imagine not being able to smell or taste? It's just so sad.
 
Damian said:
My son wasnt supposed to survive treatment, 7 years ago... forget the worst case scenario... Support is key. Many here were part of that support for me... it was amazingly helpful.... I'm sure the kharma was a huge part... dont wait to seek it out, and certainly dont wait to offer it up... no matter what happens, you can always know you contributed to making someone feel wanted, and secure... thats good kharma
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Yeah, I remember those days all too well.  I remember being in tears with the coaches corner blurb.  Your family has done well, and Terry has been a amazing trooper - I love it each time you give an update to what sport he's doing, usually a grueling contact sport ;)  Yes, it CAN be beaten.
 
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